Trust, Connection, & Transformation

TBRI® in Action at HopeTree Academy

Chris Morris, Education Supervisor at HopeTree Academy

Christopher Morris, an Education Supervisor at HopeTree Academy, has spent his career building relationships with students. His recent connection with a young boy from HopeTree’s residential program underscores how personal care and intentionality can change lives. With the support of Dr. Challen Mabry, Chief Clinical Officer of HopeTree Family Services, Morris exemplifies the profound impact of Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI®) in fostering connections and empowering youth.

A Troubled Start

The student, a 12-year-old with a history of foster care disruption, struggled with emotional regulation and social connection. After a challenging weekend, he refused to attend school. Despite efforts from clinicians, he remained withdrawn, raising concerns about his mental health and well-being.

Dr. Mabry, familiar with the boy’s positive rapport with Morris, reached out for assistance. Morris didn’t hesitate. “I walked over to the cottage, sat beside him on the sofa, and started a conversation,” Morris recalls. Their shared background—both having roots in the same community—sparked a bond. “We talked about where we grew up, and his face lit up. That connection deepened our relationship.”

What is TBRI®?

TBRI® is an attachment-based, trauma-informed intervention that is designed to meet the complex needs of vulnerable children. TBRI® uses Empowering Principles to address physical needs, Connecting Principles for attachment needs, and Correcting Principles to disarm fear-based behaviors. While the intervention is based on years of attachment, sensory processing, and neuroscience research, the heartbeat of TBRI® is connection.

TBRI® is designed to meet the complex needs of children who have experienced adversity, early harm, toxic stress, and/or trauma. Because of their histories, it is often difficult for these children to trust the loving adults in their lives, which often results in perplexing behaviors. TBRI® offers practical tools for parents, caregivers, teachers, or anyone who works with children, to see the “whole child” in their care and help that child reach his highest potential.

The Power of Showing Up

Instead of pressuring the boy, Morris offered understanding and support. He encouraged the child to return to school, framing it as a choice: “If you won’t do it for yourself, do it for me.” The approach worked. The next day, the boy came to school, smiling and carrying an unopened Dr Pepper, a meaningful gesture for someone with few personal possessions.

“He shared the soda with me, which meant a lot,” Morris says. “It wasn’t just a drink—it was a symbol of trust and gratitude.” Dr. Mabry highlights the importance of these small yet transformative moments. “Chris modeled connection over compliance, showing the student that he mattered. That’s what TBRI is all about—building trust and meeting kids where they are.”

Beyond Academics

Since that day, the student has thrived, attending school consistently and forming healthier relationships. Morris continues to provide individualized support, greeting students by name and prioritizing their needs. “No matter what I’m doing, it’s not as important as what a student needs at that moment,” he says.

Dr. Mabry emphasizes that creating connections doesn’t require a professional degree. “Chris’s willingness to sit with the boy, listen, and share a moment made all the difference. It’s a reminder that anyone can play a role in transforming lives.”

A Philosophy in Practice

Morris’s dedication stems from his belief in the transformative power of relationships. After over three decades in public education, he has embraced TBRI as a guiding framework. “I’ve learned that connection is key,” he says. “If students know you care, they’re more likely to respect boundaries and work through challenges.”

For Morris, this philosophy extends beyond his professional life. “The boy reminds me of my own son,” he shares. “That personal connection drives me to show up and support him, just as I would for my family.”

A Model for HopeTree

Morris’s actions serve as a powerful example for HopeTree Academy staff, who gather daily to reflect on TBRI® strategies and celebrate successes. “Chris’s involvement demonstrates the importance of modeling the behaviors we want to see,” says Dr. Mabry. “He’s not just an administrator—he’s in the trenches, making a real difference.”

Through the combined efforts of HopeTree Academy and HopeTree Family Services, students like this young boy are finding stability, connection, and a sense of hope. It’s a testament to the power of intentional relationships and the belief that every child deserves to feel seen, valued, and supported.

Fall into Giving

Last Chance for 2024 Donations

As the leaves change colors and we gear up for the holidays, it’s the perfect time to reflect on the year. Fall is also the perfect time to think about giving back. And guess what? Your last chance to make those tax-deductible donations before 2024 wraps up!

At HopeTree Family Services, we’ve had a year filled with promise, growth, and impact thanks to incredible supporters like you. Whether you’ve volunteered, donated, or spread the word about our mission, we are so grateful. But as the end of the year approaches, we’re reaching out to you one last time to help us continue transforming lives.

What’s In It for You?

What’s In It for You? We know that giving is about the heart, but let’s not forget the benefits to your wallet too! Your year-end donation is not only an opportunity to support those in need, but it’s also tax-deductible. That means you can lower your tax bill while making a direct impact on our community. It’s truly a win-win!

Where Does Your Gift Go?

Your donation helps us fund a variety of life-changing programs:

  • Therapeutic Group Homes for Youth: Our dedicated teams provide safe homes and caring support for at-risk youth.
  • HopeTree Academy: Our Academy team empowers a-risk youth with personalized education and support, helping them thrive academically and emotionally.
  • Treatment Foster Care Services: We work with compassionate families who provide loving homes for children in need.
  • Developmental Disabilities Ministry: We support adults with developmental disabilities, helping them lead fulfilling, independent lives.
  • Sponsored Residential: HopeTree provides individuals with developmental disabilities a supportive, family-like environment where they can thrive and live independently with personalized care.
  • Equine-Assisted Psychotherapy: At HopeTree, we harness the healing power of horses to foster emotional growth and well-being for individuals facing life’s challenges.
  • Family Centered Treatment: Our FCT team strengthens families by providing intensive, in-home support, and therapy to help them overcome challenges and build healthier, more resilient relationships.

Why Now?

By donating before December 31st, you not only get valuable tax deductions, but you help ensure that our programs are fully funded and ready to make an even bigger impact in 2025. Every dollar counts, and every act of generosity brings us closer to fulfilling our mission.

So, as you wrap up 2024, will you help us finish strong? With your support, we can continue to provide support for those who need it most.

How Can You Help?

It’s easy! Visit our website to make your year-end contribution.

Prefer a more traditional route? You can also send a check or money order using the business reply mail envelope attached to this newsletter. Whether it’s $25 or $2,500, your gift will go directly to the programs that are changing lives every day. Let’s make this holiday season one of hope, love, and generosity!

From our family to yours, thank you for being part of HopeTree’s circle of support. Together, we are changing lives, one donation at a time!

From Foster Care to Future Lawyer

How HopeTree Helped a Determined Youth Reach Ole Miss

Picture shows Rocky Belcher in front of a University of Mississippi School of Law backdrop. Credit: Rocky Belcher

In a time where many struggle to find their footing, Rocky Belcher’s story is a testament to resilience, determination, and the power of opportunity. Today, Rocky walks the campus of the University of Mississippi as a pre-law student, thanks in large part to the unwavering support he received from HopeTree. His journey, however, began with immense challenges.

Growing up in Franklin County, Virginia, Rocky’s childhood was marked by instability. Raised in a single-parent household, he faced hardships that many would find insurmountable. At just ten years old, he and his siblings were taken from their mother due to unsafe living conditions and entered the foster care system. “Life wasn’t good,” Rocky shared, reflecting on his early years. Despite being uprooted multiple times, he clung to football and school—his only constants.

HopeTree came into Rocky’s life during one of his darkest periods. After struggling with depression and a suicide attempt, Rocky found himself with nowhere to turn. Enter HopeTree, which not only provided him with a safe place to stay but also gave him the tools and support he needed to start addressing his trauma. “One of the great things that HopeTree does is show kids it’s okay to talk about what’s happened to them,” he said. “They create a space where you feel cared for and listened to.”

Every step I take on campus…wouldn’t have been possible without the generosity of HopeTree and its supporters. You’re not just changing my life; you’re changing the lives of so many others like me.

– Rocky Belcher

While at HopeTree, Rocky’s resilience began to shine. He achieved “level four” in the organization’s therapeutic system, a recognition voted on by peers and staff that celebrated his growth and maturity. This milestone symbolized his ability to overcome his past and embrace his potential.

But Rocky didn’t stop there. Despite being the first in his family to pursue higher education, he didn’t let the daunting application process deter him. His dream of attending Ole Miss became reality, inspired in part by watching The Blind Side. When financial barriers threatened his future, HopeTree stepped in again, providing a critical scholarship that covered a significant portion of his tuition.

“Every step I take on campus is a step in the right direction,” Rocky reflected. “It’s a step that wouldn’t have been possible without the generosity of HopeTree and its supporters. You’re not just changing my life; you’re changing the lives of so many others like me.”

Today, Rocky is on a mission. His experiences have inspired him to pursue a career in law, with hopes of advocating for others who feel voiceless. “Kids like me need someone who believes in them,” he explained. “If someone believes in you, it can change everything.”

Looking to the future, Rocky envisions starting a nonprofit to support at-risk youth, providing resources such as tutoring, clothing, and funding for college essentials like computers. “There are so many kids out there with all the potential in the world. They just need an opportunity,” he said.

Rocky’s story is more than a tale of personal triumph; it’s a reminder of the incredible impact a community can have when it invests in its young people. For donors, supporters, and friends of HopeTree, his journey is proof that your contributions create ripples of hope and transformation.

As Rocky works toward his law degree, he carries with him the lessons learned at HopeTree: that everyone has worth, every dream is valid, and every step forward—no matter how small—is a victory.

Picture shows Rocky Belcher and a friend during a Franklin County High School graduation. Photo credit to Rocky Belcher